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elfmaker · 03-18-2006, 06:43 PM

Quick background: nice man but weak and allows people to talk him into things and can't seem to stand up to anyone BUT ME!!!! we have a 15yo together who spends every other weekend with exdh. Our ds has severe excema and symtoms of ADD (which I personally believe is a toxic reaction).

SO--I am on the verge of tears right now......my exdh had his house tented for termite. Prior to this I specifically insited that ALL of my sons items be out of the house (beds, clothing, toys, EVERYTHING) and that he not return to the house. I even offered to come get his stuff and store it here.... So he is with exdh this weekend--but i don't know where--I call ds on his cell phone and he says they are at his dads house GETTING THE REST OF THE BOXES OUT OF THE HOUSE.....WTF!?!?!?!?!? why the hell would they box **** up and then leave it in the hosue to be POISONED!!!!!!!!! then he returns with my son and they take all these boxes of exdh's **** to storage--right along side ds' boxes.............he really missed the point......

So i just sent him an email telling him that when ds comes home Monday he will stay home until he (exdh) has a safe non toxic environment for him to stay in. Why would he want it any other way?!?!?!?!?

I just want to cry......my ds' toxic load is already too high and he didn't have to be exposed to this....except exdh is a f*cking idoit!!!!!!...........

so sad......
Luna

Tap dancin mama · 03-19-2006, 02:19 AM

Ugh what a drag! I'm sorry you are having to deal with this. My 2 boys are very sensitive to pesticides. It's really wierd, but every time someone tents for termintes on our block, they start wetting the bed. Luckily our homepoath has been really good at addresing the issue. She usually puts them on Ultra Anti tox by APEX and within a week they stop wetting the bed...