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Craftymom · 01-20-2006, 04:03 PM

I have extreme patience when it comes to a trade/swap. I have been behind on swaps/trades before. BUT what do you do when you send your half of the swap, and NEVER I mean over 6 months later do not recieve the item.
I have contacted the person several times, they are still around, but they ignore me. I have looked for feedback for them but they have no feedback site.
I don't want one person to ruin this for me. I have always gotten my half of the trade out. Sad to say I had been over a month behind on 2 swaps in the past due to the PG complications. But that was months ago and It was MY fault. That is why I am patient. But WWYD in a situation like this??
Thanks for letting me ask here
Jodi

Barb · 01-20-2006, 04:05 PM

I would contact a moderator here and ask for mediation. You can also leave negative feedback on the negative feedback thread here in our transaction feedback forum which can be edited if the situation is ever made right.

sorry mama. That just stinks

midwesternmomma · 01-20-2006, 04:40 PM

I would ask a moderator too, and then I would keep after that person until they answered me. In the end, I know I wouldn't have the nerve to do it, but some people get results when they call the person on it publically...

GOSH that stinks, no body likes to get the shaft...

harvestgirl · 01-20-2006, 04:47 PM

afaik mods don't mediate anymore... i'd tell the person who organized the swap, & posisbly jolene/or brian if nothing ever comes of it. you can always leave her a neg in the neg. fb thread..kwim? that way people will know not to trade/swap w/ her.

so sorry...bummer.

Craftymom · 02-03-2006, 02:19 AM

I meant to post and say thank you for all of you advice... I was finally able to reach her. I hope we work it out.
YOu guys are awesome mama's