Go Back   AmityMama.com > Keeping mama > Mama's Simplifying and Thrift forum

Mama's Simplifying and Thrift forum Want to cut your credit card bills? Want to live a simpler life? come on in...

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 12-18-2007, 09:11 AM   #1 (permalink)
mamabear
~namaste~

iTrader: 3 / 100%
 
mamabear's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: firmly planted in the postmodern pastoral economy
Posts: 12,991
This is the first holiday season I have not been overwhelmed w/stuff to do/buy/make.

I feel I have to post even though it's a bit of tooting my own horn.

I have to say, I did not sew morsbags this year, sadly. But, I'm FREE of overcommitting myself to crafts.

I spent $20 and made 30 bags of these: FamilyFun: Holiday Pretzel Treats Recipe - and More Family Fun

Everyone at the school, plus the bus driver, mailman, UPS guy, and anyone else I can think of, will get a colorful cello bag with 10 of those little yummies in it.

Katie and I made the batch up last night in about 2 hrs. Having 0 temps outside meant sticking them in a deep freeze for 10 minutes and they were ready to bag up! (No need to clear room in the fridge or freezer.) We did four cookie sheets' worth. How that breaks down: 2 bags Snaps pretzels (maybe could have snuck by with one, but they're only 2.19 ea and now we have snacks for the week), 2 bags Hugs, 2 bags Kisses, 1 medium bag M&M's (plenty left over), 40 cello bags from Big Lots at 80c for 20. I didn't shop sales for the candy; I happened to be in the supermarket early this month and I had the money in our account so I sprung for it all then. Planning is good; when we were ready I just went down to the pantry and grabbed the bag of supplies and we were good to go. I break that all down in case anyone else wants to make them for gifts. So a bag of a dozen comes to about $1 at our grocery prices. We ended up with a bag of 10 for maybe 85-90c including the bag.

Here is where simple/easy/quick is not thrifty. We shopped online for extended family late last week/this weekend. We spent a max of $20 a person when it is all averaged out.

I was unable to sew because my basement is about 25-30 degrees and we have not had the money to get it heated. I do have plans to sew a solstice dress for Katie, but for that I can bring the machine up during the day while the kids are at school. I've been too busy working to do that and I even still feel guilty taking a day or two off this week to do that! But I will. But anyway, bringing the machine up and knocking out morsbags assembly-line style just wasn't going to happen.

I am still sending each household, including my aunt/uncle, a felted soap in the mail today. (So just 3 of those going out.) We have those ready. Tomorrow night we'll make a few extra felted soaps to fill in, for teacher gifts - just the main teachers and a few key people on Jake's team are getting the felted soaps.

My kids and dh are shopped for. I bought them one nice gift each a few months ago. I added some books for each of them over the weekend via amazon.

I have a list of things to do this week but it's manageable. We will food shop and make some things to bring to our friends' on Solstice - we'll be traveling about 2.5 hrs to visit them this weekend.

I feel - light. Relaxed. Not hectic. Now part of that is, I'm giving myself some time off work this week - what a nice gift to give myself. I have a lull in work and I just can't quite ramp it up to query my butt off this week. But, it's still just wonderful to have all this done and be able to really relax and enjoy the season. Each year I've tried to achieve this but have not succeeded - this past week has always been filled with a million things to do and no time to do them. Not this year.

My main strategies are: assembly line gifts for teachers/staff that my kid can help with, shopping online whenever possible, using Thanksgiving break (we get the whole week) to craft those assembly line gifts. Oh and looking early for kids...which is hard sometimes because their interests change. I kind of lucked out this year. But I try to get their main gift bought by Nov 1. So the other piece of that was, I only did 2 small gifts for each kid besides the main gift. So really keeping it simple, helps a lot.

Dh and I don't usually exchange gifts, but this year he put in some $ toward a new laptop for me for work (the rest paid by my own income! yippee!) and he got my handmedown laptop as his gift. Over vacation I will back it up and reformat it for him and clean it up a little so it feels "new" (and stops freezing, which is what was driving ME bananas, and when working FT I have not had the time to stop everything for several days of work to back up and reformat). Anyway, my point - we were done early. I'm typing on my Xmas gift.
__________________
Be realistic: Plan for a miracle. ~Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh

My blog!




Christmas Challenge Ticker!

ISO:
*Woodstove steamer
*Excalibur dehydrator
*Stainless steel 6-8-qt pressure cooker


The statements contained herein have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration.
Any products mentioned are not intended to treat, cure, mitigate or prevent any disease.
mamabear is online now   Reply With Quote

Sponsored Links (Become a Supporting Member to hide these :)
Old 12-18-2007, 12:19 PM   #2 (permalink)
Halo
Up on my Paradigm

iTrader: 4 / 100%
 
Halo's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: Missoula, Montana
Posts: 2,396
Doesn't it feel great?

This is the first year I haven't been having major anxiety over gifts. Bryan and I limited our gifts to each other, set spending limits and cut down on everything considerably.

Not having a car has made it impossible to impulse shop or even run out for little things, so we're doing without the little things that add up so quickly.

I also think this will help with that weird malaise that follows Christmas, where you've worked yourselves up to this fever pitch in preparation and then crash afterward.
__________________
Julie My Feedback Link
Halo is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 12-18-2007, 12:27 PM   #3 (permalink)
mamabear
~namaste~

iTrader: 3 / 100%
 
mamabear's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: firmly planted in the postmodern pastoral economy
Posts: 12,991
Quote:
Originally Posted by Halo View Post
This is the first year I haven't been having major anxiety over gifts. Bryan and I limited our gifts to each other, set spending limits and cut down on everything considerably.

Not having a car has made it impossible to impulse shop or even run out for little things, so we're doing without the little things that add up so quickly.

I also think this will help with that weird malaise that follows Christmas, where you've worked yourselves up to this fever pitch in preparation and then crash afterward.
It does feel great!

We have a car but are very far from "real" shopping, which has made it similarly impossible to impulse shop or run out here and there.

My "big" splurge was spending the $20 per person on extended family - I had said I wouldn't. But, I know they would have taken it personally and I decided it was important enough to do it.

I feel so calm and relaxed...I just love this!
mamabear is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 12-19-2007, 03:08 PM   #4 (permalink)
Sarahd
Mom, Student, Wife...

iTrader: 1 / 100%
 
Sarahd's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: Not only did I not not fail statistics, but I got an A!!!
Posts: 1,672
awesome!! and you have given me a great way to spend time with dd when she is bored over break...making those pretzels...yummy!
__________________

SARAH
Jacob, my comedian with an attitude is 14
Adam, my Georgia Tech obsessed beauty is 11
Jordyn, my sweet little girl is 9



[url=http://www.TickerFactory.com/]



Sarahd is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 12-19-2007, 05:41 PM   #5 (permalink)
BlueRoseMama
Registered User

iTrader: 3 / 100%
 
BlueRoseMama's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: When I dare to be powerful -- to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid.
Posts: 9,502
That is wonderful! It sounds like you really have it all ready. I am not quite there yet, although I do have all the out of the house people done. The kids and I are spending winter vacation (Alex is off already until Jan 3rd) doing one craft every evening. Tonight it is snowflakes, tomorrow is chocolate covered pretzel sticks, and this weekend we are making a huge batch of freezer cookies to give to relitives and anyone else who we want to.

I have kindof pushed my crafts to the last minute this year. I need to make Cyan a stable for her horses that everyone else is getting her (that is her gift from me) and I am making Alex a corderoy quilt that is about half done now. I am feeling a bit of a push, now that Alex is home full time for the next week... but it isn't too bad. Everyone else is shopped for...

Anyway... thanks for the inspiration! I need to get to sewing.

I am totally babbling on your post. Sorry bout that. :blush:
__________________
Val; Living the dream we have been working towards for over 5 years.
Mama to Alex, Cyan, and Logan. Wife to my very best friend.

*The New and Improved* Homeschooling in the Rose Garden
And the blog about me.... please stop by...

(and don't forget to feed the fish.)



BlueRoseMama is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply


Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


Advertisements

Directory Sponsor



All times are GMT -4. The time now is 03:55 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.6.5
Copyright ©2000 - 2008, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
SEO by vBSEO 3.0.0 RC8
Amitymama.com (c) 1998-2005