I know -- but this isn't just any move. It's going from a whole house of stuff to nearly nothing, and moving 5000 miles. We won't be able to find a place to live until we get there so we'll be camping out when we first arrive. We will drive the whole way, most likely, or take the ferry through Southeast again. So a cross-country vacation is part of the plan.

I've done it before and only from Olympia and with less stuff, and it took all our energy for 6 weeks to get it going, and we weren't as ready as we should have been. With all that we have going on (three hours a day of commuting my kids to their school, my son having extremely intensive attention needs), it seems nearly impossible! I'm trying to declutter now, but I know I'm not doing it as much as I could until I know we're going.
Patience was never my strength.

Add to that that I am a perfectionist and want everything packed perfectly and decluttered perfectly.