Hi Melody!
The mamas on this board are GREAT for suggestions of ways to save money. Check out some of the "brainstorm" threads I started - there's one on electric, one on gas, and I forget what all else.
We're in the same boat, kind of. A lot of the mamas here are.
The first thing I did was to sit down with the checkbook and bills and REALLY figure out where our money was going, and how much our expenses run each money. Then I started cutting where ever we could.
We switched to a flat rate long distance plan, changed plans on our cell phones to one with a lower minutes and lower monthly fee (be careful, some companies charge you to switch).
Oh, there's another post with all sorts of ideas on what you might be able to cut out - cable, magazine subscriptions, etc.
There's a site that offers free budget thingy - they send it to you every week for a few weeks and it was helpful to me, but I'm totally drawing a blank at the moment. When I think of it, I'll post it.
Welcome!