Thank you, Stacy, those are excellent links!
I think I may have to go to the

health nurse and get an approved exemption. They always give attitude, but it's legal in our state to have a religious -- yk I heard that in Iowa, you cannot get a religious exemption unless your religious affiliation is with one that holds it as a stand of the church not to vax

but I don't know if it's true. I have to look into it if we ever decide to move back there. But for now, this info will help a lot!