Thanks for the advice to not take it as being totally accurate, I'd not have thought about that but it makes total sense.
I know it is not funny like "ha ha" funny....maybe ironic would be the term I am looking for in reference to the courthouse having been burnt down by early members of the LDS/Mormon church and now it is the LDS church that does so much work for genaology. From history I've read, it sure seemed to be a unstable time for LDS and non-LDS folks back then.
I hope I don't run into any big barriers like burn down courthouses when I start searching!!
I can see how it would be addictive!
I did finally get a hold of my sister-in-law. She has lots of names and dates but nothing "official". She agreed to share the names she has and I can go from there.
I told her I'd mail her copies of any birth/death/marriage certificates that I get. (which will help her with her LDS baptisms/endowments and whatnot that they will do for their dead ancestors) I'm glad she will at least share that much...she still won't mail me documents, but from what I understand if I have names and maybe states where the person lived, I can start searching from there?
I'm also hoping if I share freely with her, she will feel guilty and reply by sharing with me.
Thanks again mamas!!
Michelle