EFT Tapping CircleThis is a circle of support for those who join. All interested in EFT are eligible. You do not need to be in advanced in EFT to participate. If you want to learn more about EFT see the stickies in the main forum. We will take turns tapping for a member's issues for a three day cycle. This is an exciting opportunity to further support our friends and families here energetically and spiritually. It is also an opportunity for you to get additional support for yourself.
Well I'm not one to ask for help much so the fact that I'm asking for tapping help again means this must be a very special place with a bunch of awesome mamas - (but then again we already know that!)
Two things --
The first is I've been hit with a cold/sinus infection/ear infection -- even though I tapped a lot for the shock of my mil's hospitalization, it still was a lot of shock to my system and I got ill. (I also had my dad visiting for christmas which gets me off center and my grandmother died after a long struggle with alzheimers) ......I was hit by a migraine, turned into flu like symptoms and now have this ear infection ... I'm tapping for myself and treating myself homeopathically so the symptoms are moving but I feel like I need an extra boost. I think one round of tapping from this circle would be all I needed to get me over the hump ...
The other thing is that my sister Jane had a baby a few days ago. A really cutie named Mary Jane -- the birth was a little rough and they had to use head suction and her billirubin is up a bit. I'd love to help clear any birth trauma but most importantly support her in the billirubin. The blood tests and lights are a pain and really interfering with my sister just tuning into and being with her baby. I am also tapping for her on this and got to work with her in person a bit but the power of a circle would be great.
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Deborah Donndelinger, EFTCert-I, EFT-ADV www.EftWithDeborah.com You don't have to do it alone, we can help.
I will tap for you, Jane, and Mary Jane later tonight when it is quiet.
Rhea
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Homeschooling mama to 3 and loving it. : )
"What I'm certain I don't want," she finally said aloud, "is to find myself someday in a new century,
an old bitter woman looking back, wishing that right now I'd had more nerve."
I didn't get to it last night, but just tapped for all of you know. I felt very tuned into Mary Jane I really felt drawn to tap on her birth trauma ...as a result of tapping on the Bilirubin...like that was the main issue..the birth trauma. Will try to tap more on that.
I also tapped for your ear infection. I felt resistance from you in letting it go which surprised me...
Thanks everyone .... so glad to hear Linda you were able to tune into Mary Jane -- I saw her today and she is doing so well -- her head is completely cleared from the bruising. Her skin still looks a bit yellow but her demeanor is amazing - she's so calm. Thanks for working on the birth trauma -- it was a bit scary - she was twisted sideways and then had her hand by her face which blocked her and then her cord was wrapped around her ankle trapping her and then the suction was used -
Interesting that you found resistance to my letting go of the ear pain ... makes sense though, otherwise why would I have it? But I'll have to ponder that and see what comes up. I'm getting a sense of punishing myself -- but no idea why. ( I actually ended up going to the ER because it was so bad and I couldn't clear it. I can't believe I'm saying this but it felt good to go and get help, even from an allopathic doctor. It's on the mend today ... )
I am doing a three day spiritual intensive this weekend and wonder what will come up --
Nothing is ever as it seems, that's for sure.
And what's funny Linda, I know you were kidding, but I feel totally needy -- which I don't like at all .... very uncomfortable for me .... aahhhhhh! <<<<<running away screaming ...>>>>
Thanks everyone .... so glad to hear Linda you were able to tune into Mary Jane -- I saw her today and she is doing so well -- her head is completely cleared from the bruising. Her skin still looks a bit yellow but her demeanor is amazing - she's so calm. Thanks for working on the birth trauma -- it was a bit scary - she was twisted sideways and then had her hand by her face which blocked her and then her cord was wrapped around her ankle trapping her and then the suction was used -
Interesting that you found resistance to my letting go of the ear pain ... makes sense though, otherwise why would I have it? But I'll have to ponder that and see what comes up. I'm getting a sense of punishing myself -- but no idea why. ( I actually ended up going to the ER because it was so bad and I couldn't clear it. I can't believe I'm saying this but it felt good to go and get help, even from an allopathic doctor. It's on the mend today ... )
I am doing a three day spiritual intensive this weekend and wonder what will come up --
Nothing is ever as it seems, that's for sure.
And what's funny Linda, I know you were kidding, but I feel totally needy -- which I don't like at all .... very uncomfortable for me .... aahhhhhh! <<<<<running away screaming ...>>>>
so glad to hear everyone is on the mend.so glad.
I was actually TESTING you when I said you were needy~to see what might come up for you. It is definitely a theme..that comes up for you. Not wanting to aks for help push/pull...needing it so much, but not feeling comfortable asking for it. THe whole 'my needs were not met as a baby thing?' Maybe you need proof over and over that you won't be rejected when you reach out for help? hmm....
Along these lines..it stood out to me that you DID get help from the ER...and was happy to get help from SOMEONE..so you honored that part of yourself? Maybe a lesson for you is that you need to reach out for help and feel like it is OK?
IS the ear infection directly linked to your dad somehow?(if you ask your intuition?)
Oh Deborah, that is a lot on your mind. No wonder you fell ill.
I hope your ear infection clears up quickly. I had a severe one about 9 years ago. I know that pain is worse than any other. I'm partially deaf from that infection and we think a reaction to antibiotics. Be real careful. Ear problems scare me now.
I tapped on that for you and I got a pain in my back about mid-way down. I'll tap some more again tomorrow. I hope it helps clear things up for you!
I tapped for the baby and briefly had some pain in my left arm. I'll tap for her again as well.
Take time for yourself Deborah. You really need to carve it in. Update us if you can.
Best wishes!!
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~Kimberly
*Mom to one funny, sassy girl!
so glad to hear everyone is on the mend.so glad.
I was actually TESTING you when I said you were needy~to see what might come up for you. It is definitely a theme..that comes up for you. Not wanting to aks for help push/pull...needing it so much, but not feeling comfortable asking for it. THe whole 'my needs were not met as a baby thing?' Maybe you need proof over and over that you won't be rejected when you reach out for help? hmm....
Along these lines..it stood out to me that you DID get help from the ER...and was happy to get help from SOMEONE..so you honored that part of yourself? Maybe a lesson for you is that you need to reach out for help and feel like it is OK?
IS the ear infection directly linked to your dad somehow?(if you ask your intuition?)
its a journey...one day at a time...
so what did they give you in the ER that helped?
You are exactly right -- I felt stupid going to the ER and really thought they would think I was a wimp -- but it felt so good to acknowledge I needed more help than I could give myself. So, yes it was honoring. Last time I went was when I broke my toe when my dad was visiting ... same story - I felt stupid going but also felt empowered going. I really have to clear this ... I don't want to keep getting hurt or ill when he visits!
The obvious connection to my dad:
As a kid I used to get horrible swimmer's ear. I'd wake up in horrible pain and not go in to wake my dad. (I lived with him in the summer). I would wait until the morning until he and his wife got up. I was too embarrassed to wake him up - I felt like it would have been imposing. I remember this happening two times.
Okay, way more work to do. I talk with my eft coach Monday so I'll have lots to clear with her!
Oh Deborah, that is a lot on your mind. No wonder you fell ill.
I hope your ear infection clears up quickly. I had a severe one about 9 years ago. I know that pain is worse than any other. I'm partially deaf from that infection and we think a reaction to antibiotics. Be real careful. Ear problems scare me now.
I tapped on that for you and I got a pain in my back about mid-way down. I'll tap some more again tomorrow. I hope it helps clear things up for you!
I tapped for the baby and briefly had some pain in my left arm. I'll tap for her again as well.
Take time for yourself Deborah. You really need to carve it in. Update us if you can.
Best wishes!!
Thanks Kimberly for the support. I'm sorry to hear about infection and hearing loss - I was actually wondering about that ... in retrospect, what would you have done differently for yourself?
Deborah,
I tapped briefly for you last night and the night before. The first night, what came up was fear, needing a break, wanting to be taken care of. They sound like my issues, LOL, so I don't know if they apply to you at all....
Deborah. I tapped a bit last night too. Had this feeling of a lot of falling, like a very powerful (and tall/long) waterfall. Not sure it that means anything to you. But lots of falling.
I hope that you are better.
One trick from homeopathy (since you mentioned using that too) that I have learned recently (and it is a basic, so you may already do this and I don't know why it was not part of my reportoire before), but aconite (esp. in high potencies, like 1M) is great for shock and at first signs of illness. It works best, in my experience, taken immediately at the first sign of something. Though, even for past shocks, it works well. Again, I would use a high potency. For things from the past, one dose before bed seems best.
And, you used the work honoring somewhere. This has come up for me a lot lately too as I work on honoring my needs, the needs of my body, etc. I think it is important for a lot of us.
I wish I had taken aconite right away -- I do forget about it ... thanks for the reminder -- I think it's too late now?
A homeopathic question -- can belladona ever be used for a left sided symptom if other symptoms fit?
I did not remember anything about sides for belladona. So I pulled out two Materia Medicas and this is what stands out:
Belladonna is always associated with hot, red skin, flushed face, glaring eyes/dialated pupils, excited mental state, restless sleep, delirium, throbbing pain.
Inflammation with redness, heat, swelling and pain.
But, I did not see anything about it being right-sided. I did not read every line though. Still, I think if you have the above bolded symptoms, belladona can help.
Jody
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