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I wish I had taken aconite right away -- I do forget about it ... thanks for the reminder -- I think it's too late now?
And I want to add that, for me, this is one of the things that I am learning. These are very complicated times for human beings. We need many modalities to survive and thrive. So I would take the aconite and tap too. If I had no aconite, I would just tap. If I was dealing with multiple people needing me (other upset family members, an injured or scared child), I'd give an aconite and save the tapping for later -- like after the bandages were on or whatever.
To answer you more specifically Deborah, it might be too late for the aconite. Another possibility is ignatia, which is good for hysteria and loss. It is a common grief remedy.
I'm stumped as the tapping is not affecting the ear pain AT ALL. And I can't access the emotions at all. I'll know more Monday when I tap with Kathleen, my coach.
I am in touch with my homeopath who's away but in email contact.
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Deborah sending you tons of love and light and want you to know I am very fond of you and grateful for you and one of the beautiful things about you is your realness and willingness to share your own walk so hang in mama as you tread this hurdle. I am here watching in awe.
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Linda, is your ear problem in the outer year or inner?
I've had an inner ear something in my right ear for almost 2 years now. My naturopath says there is no sign of infection, and he believes I got a fluid build up at some point and it hasn't gone away. He says it can get thick and be hard to clear. But here's the thing, the fluid makes my voice very loud in my own ear, but if I tilt my head to the side, I can hear better and my voice isn't loud anymore. That kind of says to me that it isn't thick. Also, it lessens and worsens.
Yesterday doing read alouds for my six year old I had to read with my head tilted to the side. It is so frustrating!
When I tapped for Aida's (I think it was Aida's) ear mine got better, but never went away. One night I was tapping for Aida's ear and my pain went away, but not the fluid. (The pain also comes and goes.)
When I tap for my own ear, I've never noticed any change at all. : (
Any ideas, suggestions, would be GREATLY appreciated.
Rhea
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"What I'm certain I don't want," she finally said aloud, "is to find myself someday in a new century,
an old bitter woman looking back, wishing that right now I'd had more nerve."
Linda, is your ear problem in the outer year or inner?
I've had an inner ear something in my right ear for almost 2 years now. My naturopath says there is no sign of infection, and he believes I got a fluid build up at some point and it hasn't gone away. He says it can get thick and be hard to clear. But here's the thing, the fluid makes my voice very loud in my own ear, but if I tilt my head to the side, I can hear better and my voice isn't loud anymore. That kind of says to me that it isn't thick. Also, it lessens and worsens.
Yesterday doing read alouds for my six year old I had to read with my head tilted to the side. It is so frustrating!
When I tapped for Aida's (I think it was Aida's) ear mine got better, but never went away. One night I was tapping for Aida's ear and my pain went away, but not the fluid. (The pain also comes and goes.)
When I tap for my own ear, I've never noticed any change at all. : (
Any ideas, suggestions, would be GREATLY appreciated.
Rhea
Rhea..I am ROTFLOL! because it is Deborah's ear
and Leah's ear..
lol! no worries, mama.
OK..on YOUR ear.
I will ask you a few questions..
What was going on in your life about the time...6 months before or so that you noticed the inner ear thing? meditate wile tappin on this..it ican be SO HELPFUL!
you can tap while you think about it, it seems to help
other questions you can ask yourself are..
when was the first time or worst time you noticed the inner ear thing..does it remind you of something form your past?
or..
do you have an emotion associated with the ear thing, what does that emotion remind you of? anger, sadness, fear??? abandonment?
let me know if you come up with anything...
we can start a new thread if you want.
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Deborah sending you tons of love and light and want you to know I am very fond of you and grateful for you and one of the beautiful things about you is your realness and willingness to share your own walk so hang in mama as you tread this hurdle. I am here watching in awe.
I'm stumped as the tapping is not affecting the ear pain AT ALL. And I can't access the emotions at all. I'll know more Monday when I tap with Kathleen, my coach.
I am in touch with my homeopath who's away but in email contact.
I know I already said this, but I think one of the lessons for all healers is to be open and to be willing to reach for another tool in the toolbox when one doesn't work -- just like you are doing. It is not that EFT can't help this. But for some reason you're stuck. Maybe homepathy can alleviate the pain or clear something else and then you will be able to focus more or gain new insight for tapping. Maybe you need a chiropractor or an osteopath to make a mechanical adjustment and everything will start falling into place.
I went in reverse with homeopathy being my main thing. I loved it (still do) and thought it could cure anything. If it didn't work, obviously I just hadn't found the right remedy (and I was working with professional homeopaths). Kind of like you read all of the stuff on the EFT sites and know EFT has worked miracles for things that seem much bigger than what your are dealing with and figure it should be working for you, but it doesn't (for this).
Anyway, all my rambling is probably more about me and my own issues than about you, but it was a long-winded way of saying I think you are doing the right thing by trying homeopathy (and whatever else you might need) and I hope that you are healed very soon.
Rhea..I am ROTFLOL! because it is Deborah's ear
and Leah's ear..
lol! no worries, mama.
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let me know if you come up with anything...
we can start a new thread if you want.
Oh, I'm so sorry. I even searched to find the original thread since I couldn't remember which of your children had the ear problem (it was YOUR child wasn't it?) but I didn't find it and was running out of time before we had to leave... <sigh>
I also didn't meant to intrude on Deborah's ear thread, I've just been living with this thing for so long and when reading this thread got excited that maybe someone would have some ideas for me, EFT wise or other.
Oh, I'm so sorry. I even searched to find the original thread since I couldn't remember which of your children had the ear problem (it was YOUR child wasn't it?) but I didn't find it and was running out of time before we had to leave... <sigh>
I also didn't meant to intrude on Deborah's ear thread, I've just been living with this thing for so long and when reading this thread got excited that maybe someone would have some ideas for me, EFT wise or other.
Rhea
It was Leah(mine all mine!!!)
lets start a new thread for you so you can answer questions...lol!
Oh, and to finish my rambling and get to my point: after homeopathy worked a bunch of miracles for my children, it suddenly stopped working. Remedy after remedy. Excellent homeopath after excellent homeopath, we seemed to be stuck. And that is what led me to look for something new. Now, I have added other things to what we do, including (among other modalities) lots of much better nutrition and EFT.
Oh, and to finish my rambling and get to my point: after homeopathy worked a bunch of miracles for my children, it suddenly stopped working. Remedy after remedy. Excellent homeopath after excellent homeopath, we seemed to be stuck. And that is what led me to look for something new. Now, I have added other things to what we do, including (among other modalities) lots of much better nutrition and EFT.
I can relate with that. I have many different routes to health and healing too. Sometimes you have to look for another answer.
Totally relate to what you write being myself a total homeopath junkie ... I still think if it doesn't work, it means I just haven't found the right remedy. I *hate* thinking that my chosen modality won't work for *everything*! Same with tapping.
I still think that if I find the right modality (tapping, homeopathy) that I should be able to clear something quickly. I get discouraged and think I'm doing something "wrong" if it doesn't.
On the other hand, I am aware that my body is doing its best to keep the disturbance in my vital force at the safest place -- so really, this ear pain is my body's doing it best to handle "something".
So is there a message in all of this? Maybe patience? I don't know ...
So is there a message in all of this? Maybe patience? I don't know ...
I ask myself this message constantly with my various struggles (which seem so small and silly compared to what most of the world is dealing with). When I am in the midst of it, I cannot seem to gleen the message. Nothing makes sense.
I think we are back to that word: honoring. Honoring where we are when we are there. Honoring ourselves. Doing what we can with EFT or whatever modality we need. And letting our best at the moment be good enough.
Jody
(((Deborah))) 
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