ONe day I said to Rehana, 'my daughter Leah really resists tapping with me. She used to love it and now won't do it. IT has helped her so much in the past'
Rehana said to me "don't give her anything to resist'That is all she said to me.
My reaction was 'HUH?????'
However, I stopped giving Leah anything to resist about. Stopped trying to 'fix' her problems...I did not offer to tap with her. I just told her 'if you ever want to tap with me or want me to tap for you, I will."
My advice will always be, tap for yourself FIRST. Clear yourself of any intensity you have on an issue about your child...THEN tap for your child.
When you clear yourself only then can you be clear and present for your children.
For example, your child is biting their nails. It is driving you NUTS. You want them to quit. Tap on YOUR issues around this...and THEN you can be clear and present for your child.
I will also say again, and again, I notice that the more of my OWN issues that I clear, that my children's issues tend to settle as well. It is not always true, but really, take care of yourself first and your family will follow. I PROMISE. Also when you clear your own stuff you can be more clear with your intuition about your children.
My dh won't tap. That is cool with me. (I didn't like it at first though!
) we each have our own paths and our own ways of healing. I don't think it means aything other then he does not want to tap and wants to go his own way.
Jody
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