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merka8a · 07-06-2007, 02:50 AM

I'm not quite sure what this forum is about but I do have some issues I might need some ideas about. My husband came out of a marraige that was financially stable. Our marriage is a long story. Now that his is paying half of his paycheck to the ex for child support and maintenance there isn't a whole lot of money for us to live on. We started our small hom business and that has been helping the supplemenation of money. I am now working as a Legal Assistand but it's not set in concrete yet. The paperwork will be done next week. He is having a nervous break down over finances and is stressing me out to the point my MS is kicking in more than it should be. I have a reallys tiff neck tonight because of the blame I had put on my shoulders. I finally got him to understand why I needed a cell phone for work. I am now allowed to use the business phone for a whole lot of personal stuff. I told my boss I was getting a cell phone and he was a lot happier over that. He wants me to leave for lunch and take care of personal stuff during that time. My husband finally understood that. I did tell him this before but I guess it didn't sink in.
I could use some ideas of what I don't know. We are arguing a lot over the kids. His kids can do no wrong yet mine are the evil ones and he is always on them for something or another. It is getting harder for them. We have had his kids for almost five weeks and it has been hard for me to get him to see the faults of his kids too. I see them all the time as well as my kids' faults. Mine are definitley aren't angels and I admit to that. Now if he could see that his wonderfully raised christian children aren't that angelic it would be nice.
I guess that is all. I have tons more to say but I'm to tired to tell all. If anybody has some ideas let me know. I love my husband dearly and don't want to argue with him anymore about kids and money. I know we will get through this but how do I get him to see it???

Deborah · 07-06-2007, 08:30 AM

This forum is about using EFT to address our issues. You present some great stuff to work on. The first step is to learn about EFT and the best way to do this is read the free manual offered at emofree.com. Once you have a basic understanding of how EFT works, I can offer some ideas on how to use EFT for what you describe.
All the best,
Deborah

merka8a · 07-06-2007, 04:34 PM

Deborah,
I am a Reiki II practitioner and I looked at EFT. It sounds great. I received the free manual and plan on taking a look at it. I know thumping or tapping can do wonders. I haven't done it in a long tim. I do believe this gives a more detailed look at the meridians than what I already know. I always wanted to know more about the pressure points and now I am glad that I posted on EFT. I knew I did it for a reason. Talk more later. I need to read