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Old 04-26-2004, 01:45 AM   #1 (permalink)
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bouncing bunny I feel so alive (aka 14 inches of hair cut and donated to Locks of Love!)

WOW!!! Can I just say... 14 inches of hair really weighed a lot?!? LOL! I've been growing it the past 1 1/2 years so I can donate again. I made the hair appointment last month at Aveda for today and walked in feeling nervous (it wasn't my first time tho, I was more nervous that the kids might not recognize me or might be scared!) ~

Well, what do I know? I told the lady to cut my hair off, at least 10 inches, but don't go above my chin level. She did exactly as instructed and for donating, I got my hair cut free, also, she gave me two bottles of shampoo/conditioner as a thank you gift!!!

Now, I'm trying to think if I should donate again ~ granted, I love my hair now. I can actually move my neck without feeling weighed back. But I want to also help the young children with no hair -- they were my true inspiration.

If you want to know why I started doing this... read on, if not, then stop here! Caution: This might make you cry!

Back in 1993, when my grandmother was diagnosed with stomach cancer -- she lived for two more wonderful years and when she was sick in the hospital, she was moved to the cancer building where terminally ill people were put. Every day, I visited my grandmother until I saw this beautiful little girl being wheeled up and down the hallway. I was sitting by my grandmother as she was under morphine and very ill. The little girl asked her mom to bring her in the room and she asked me if she can sit in my lap.

I said sure and as her mom picked this bald, terminally ill girl up and placed her on my legs, little did I realize that we didn't talk much. We kept looking at each other eye to eye as she played with my long, curly hair. I smiled at her and wiped tears from my eyes -- she was so young... seven years old. She then put my hair over her head and played with it. She played pulling my hair back, front, tried to braid it, etc.

Every day, this little girl kept coming to visit everytime she sees me. Every day, she sat on my lap and played with my hair. My grandmother continued to get worse, and my mind was just drawing blank. She finally passed away peacefully with her family around her. I was just in tears.

As I began to go to this little girl's room, I noticed she was sleeping and talked with her parents in the hallway. I went in to say good bye -- gave her a kiss on her beautiful cheeks and rubbed her hands. I gave her parents my address and phone number in case they want to talk. Her parents were the strongest parents I've known -- they did not give up hope, even when she was terminally ill.

Three weeks later, I received a phone call. This little girl passed away and her funeral was in 2 days. I pulled myself together and went to her funeral and saw her family -- I reached out to them and we talked. Her mother slipped me a note and asked me to read it at home.

This little girl asked her mom to write me a note for her because she was so ill to write -- she wanted to thank me for being there for her and for letting her play with my hair. She went on saying how much she loved it and if I ever decide to cut it, to please donate it to the Locks of Love in memory of her. At that time, I just poured out tears...

Every 2 years or so, I have donated to the Locks of Love -- the memories of my grandmother and this little girl continues to live on. Every time I mail in my hair, I put it in a zip-lock bag and marked it in memory of this girl.

I hope that you all will consider donating to Locks of Love -- whether or not you've been touched by a special child like I have. Now I'm going to wipe the tears away from my face...
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Old 04-26-2004, 01:52 AM   #2 (permalink)
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That's really a sweet story! I'm so happy that you were there for her and touched her like that, and she you. And sweet for the little one who gets a new hairdo, too.

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Old 04-26-2004, 02:06 AM   #3 (permalink)
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That's great you were able to donate your hair again!! I wish mine would grow long enough to do that.. it just doesn't want to ever grow that long!!!

but um.. where are the before and after pictures???
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Old 04-26-2004, 02:55 AM   #4 (permalink)
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That was beautiful!! You should submit and article mama...

thank you for doing this
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Old 04-26-2004, 03:17 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I am seriously bawling here. What a touching story. I am already planning on donating my hair in memory of my wonderful aunt (see my sig). I just have a couple more inches to go!
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Old 04-26-2004, 03:21 AM   #6 (permalink)
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That is truly a beautiful story.

My 19 y.o. recently had her long hair cut chin length and donated. She is in the process of growing it long again so she can donate again. She also donates blood regularly. She truly cares about people and makes my heart proud.
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Old 04-26-2004, 06:35 AM   #7 (permalink)
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That's so special!!
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Old 04-26-2004, 07:52 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Ok you made me cry.. what a very inspirational story.. I donated my hair last year as well.. not long enough yet to cut it again.. mgaybe by the winter..
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What an inspiring story! I wish I could grow my hair long to donate it, but since I've had kids my hair won't grow much past my shoulders without getting thinner and thinner and more damaged. You really should think about submitting that story--it was beautiful!
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Old 04-26-2004, 09:41 AM   #11 (permalink)
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What a great story!

I want to see pictures, too!

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Old 04-26-2004, 11:14 AM   #12 (permalink)
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Thanks for posting! I have been growing mine out for Locks of Love since October 2002 and am nowhere close - and it didn't start out short! After 18 months, you would think that I would be willing to stick it out until the end, but I am having second thoughts! Your thread will keep me going!
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Old 04-26-2004, 11:29 AM   #13 (permalink)
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I did get a story published at the hospital where both passed away as well as Locks of Love newsletter years ago. I'm glad to hear that some of you have donated already or in the process of donating -- it will make you feel wonderful inside!

Margaret, thanks for the link! I meant to put that in, but oops! I could barely see the monitor last night! LOL!
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Old 04-26-2004, 11:53 AM   #14 (permalink)
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Im about to have my cut to send it to Loves of Love as well. It was suppost to of happened a few mnths ago but the woman at the salon being a horrible person intentionally cut more than 2.5 inches off to get rid of any split ends. What a horrible thing to do. ;( She did it on purpouse so she wouldnt ahv to cut my hair again. She was in a hurry to go on lunch break. Its a long ugly story. I even asked if the other girl could cut my hair. ~sigh~ She was just SO rude in so many ways.
She even cut my hair VERY crooked. So i called corporate complained called the local store too. Just so happend that I had a photo taken right before we went in beaucuse my yahoo group wanted before and after pics. So It was *very* obvious what she did. She took off4.5 inches at the least. I went in to have it fixed by the manager who had to take off another .5 inch. She gave me a free coupon to have it cut and styled once it got long enough again. Which it is now. But now Im balking just a tad beacsuse my hair hasnt been this long for as long as I can remember maybe ever? And it would be cool to see just how long it would get. But I miss my short hair. This long hair gets in my way alot. Im just scared that the short hair will make me look bigger (read fatter!) . Im weighting 150lbs right now. Should be 125ish.

Im going to have it cut sometime this next week I think. And Im going VERY short.

Anyway, I too agree on the idea of you submitting that story. It was great. I cryed. ;o)
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I did get a story published at the hospital where both passed away as well as Locks of Love newsletter years ago.
Great
Oh and I forgot to add I donated in '01 but not 14 inches LOL!
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