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I can agree with what everyone else has said. The more you fight it, the worse they want it. But I also know exactly how hard it can be. And how much sensory overload to do both at the same time. It can be so irritating that you just literally want to throw both kids off you and run away screaming. Of course, try not to do that! lol. I am currently tandeming for my second time. And I did the nursing at the same time with my first tandeming. And this time, I seriously don't want to do that.
It's always hardest in the beginning. But I can tell you a few things that could help.
When the baby is down for a good nap and you have a minute, take your toddler aside and offer the breast. Like, I haven't forgotten about you, you just have to be patient with momma. Try to give your toddler a little just you and him/her time every day.
Also, prepare up or stock up on some quick, easy, and healthy snacks that your toddled will just love. And when you see him/her coming in to breastfeed, try to catch them just before they say it and say, would you like a cheese stick, or a yogurt. Some grapes. Ect. Rotate these out frequently so they don't get bored with it because they will get bored with the same stuff quickly. But it can work every now and then when you really need an extra break. There are a few distraction methods that work, but just remember your toddler is just confused and dealing with issues about where they fit in. You don't want him/her to develop issues with the baby that will last their whole childhood. You want them to bond now, so they make your life easier in the future. lol.
Good luck.
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Mama to Trin 
& Jinx 
I remember when my toddler was driving me bonkers with nursing after a new baby was born. Eventually it went back to normal but it took awhile.
--- as much as i sometimes had to grit my teeth at the thought, if i refused, it was unbearable. they are dealing with a lot of emotions and jealousy -- they need to know you are still there for them. 
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