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Old 03-06-2007, 11:55 PM   #1 (permalink)
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I'm so frustrated! trying to hire an in-home sitter blues.....

it's the normal hiring blues.... of the appointments I set to interview only some of them show up. Some who do show up have no intention of taking the job. Of the ones who do show up and want a job only some are appropriate. Of the ones who are the most appropriate there always seem to be vacation/pay issues.......

I need to have a trained replacement for our pregnant, relocating sitter by the end of March. I am not desperate yet, I keep trying to remind myself. I want to be picky. Picky is good. yet.... I JUST WANT TO HIRE SOMEONE NOW!!!!

sigh. end of complaint for the day. A fresh interview to look forward to tomorrow. Things might be great, right?

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Old 03-07-2007, 08:45 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Good luck! I hope you find the perfect person.
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Old 03-08-2007, 05:27 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Hugs, hon, that sounds rough.

Why even show up if you have no intention of taking a job <headscratch>??? That just seems like a waste of your AND their time, yk?

Chin up, someone wonderful will come along!
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Have you told everyone that you know that you are looking? I always find through word of mouth.
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Old 03-12-2007, 07:10 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I 'think' we found a great sitter! She starts this wednesday so still a bit tentative about everything till it really happens.... but we all like her and she seems to like us. Thanks for the well wishes! This search was a nail biter.
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Keeping my fingers crossed that this one will work out!
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Old 03-12-2007, 10:49 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I 'think' we found a great sitter! She starts this wednesday so still a bit tentative about everything till it really happens.... but we all like her and she seems to like us. Thanks for the well wishes! This search was a nail biter.
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oh, good luck!

The trying to find the best care for your children part of working is the hardest. Every time I think that we've got it and won't ever have to worry about it again, something else comes up.
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Old 03-14-2007, 12:02 AM   #8 (permalink)
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crap - less than 12 hours till start time and she 'accepted another position.' GD! I think somehow I knew this was going to happen, never felt so tentative about a hire before. SIGH. Shist!

Got a new job offered post on craigslist already, will expand the search tomorrow morning. Tonight I think I'll just mope.

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Old 03-14-2007, 01:32 AM   #9 (permalink)
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oh how frustrating for you!

if there is any chance you are near me (near Sacramento,CA) I would gladly baby sit for you!!
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