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kimberlee
10-16-2007, 10:32 AM
What lens are you using?
Your ISO, do you bump it high if the hospital is dark?
Do you 'pose' at all or just take photos of the baby and his or her family?
When and how did you decide this was something you wanted to do?

Adria
10-16-2007, 06:12 PM
I think this is the most amazing gift.

Are you going to start doing it?

kimberlee
10-23-2007, 06:05 PM
It is something I would really like to start doing. I think I am ready now. But as near as I can figure, you need to have a photography business to do it with NILMDTS or with ACPCG. I have NO desire to start up a business right now. I just am not in that place in my life. I'm raising 4 littles + one on the way and my husband travels a great deal (but you know this...LOL). But I am feeling like I would like to offer this to families.

Sandi
10-23-2007, 06:14 PM
I can't answer any of them except the last one -

I was profoundly touched by the loss of our friends' baby the week I found out I was expecting my first. I started writing a book a couple of years later on pregnancy and infant loss. I had it about 3/4ths of the way done, when we lost a baby to miscarriage. It hurt too much and I threw the whole thing away a few months later, because I never though I could come back to it.

I've always felt very "called" to work with bereaved parents and feel comfortable with the subject matter. I've always loved photography and worked as a freelance writer/photographer for a while - then had too many kids to keep my head above water and something had to give.

Coming back to it and trying to learn digital photography reopened that interest and seeing the story of NILMDTS cemented it for me. I was a nanny for a micropreemie and had a daughter in the NICU as well, so the idea of working with children in those situations also is an environment in which I feel "comfortable" (or as comfortable as you can expect).

I think it's a beautiful gift of a precious time in a parents' life and I can think of no greater honor than being invited to document that time. Like you, I have no interest in starting up a biz right now - but I continue to document Jack's journey and feel that I'm improving along the way. And, maybe some day I can be there for someone else.

Christi
10-23-2007, 06:17 PM
I recently joined NILMDTS - there is a wealth of info on their forum - all of your questions are answered there. :)

tracey
10-23-2007, 06:30 PM
yep. what she said. their forum is amazing...discusses recommended settings, tricks and tips to make images work, pp suggestions to minimize damage from decomposition....