since asking my co-op question, i have had LOTS of mamas pm me with similar experiences. not just with this particular co-op--which i still have not named in public--but with others as well.
someone pm'ed me with the idea of co-op feedback b/c this sucks. where would be a good place to do that so other new mamas don't get stuck with this situation?

I would put it in the feedback forum and also link it on the market board so people know it is there. It would be great to have a central list of all of our experiences with co-ops. Or maybe even start individual threads for each one. I would love to hear the good ones to participate in and also the ones to avoid.

I would too! I belong to a bunch (even the 'one' in question LOL') and I am just afraid to try one of them :X ROFL.