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MomToBear
08-23-2005, 01:11 PM
We have been wanting to adopt for so long but the financial side keeps us back. While checking out online, I found a posting for a little boy (almost 3) whose mother poured boiling water over him and he has burns down his torso and neck. :wah: There was no mention of any emotional issues and only that he is a very happy child. It was repeatedly mentioned in his posting that the orphanage didn't think he would ever be adopted due to his burns :eyes: It is breaking my heart into a million pieces thinking of this little boy sitting on the other side of the ocean with no one and not a very promising future. I emailed the agency involved to get some info about adopting him and if it is even possible and I so hope that we will be able to swing this. I just had to share this and if anyone has any info or advice at all, my ears are wide open. Thank you

p.s. I believe he is in Russia right now and I have no idea how that process would work

grisandole
08-23-2005, 02:55 PM
Have you been on www.adoptuskids.org? There's a ton of kids here in the US, and you can get the homestudy process done free through your state ;) It takes about six months to get it done; if you use a private agency that you pay for, about three.

We looked into Russian adoption, but the cost and requirements kept us from pursuing it.

Good luck!

MomToBear
08-23-2005, 03:37 PM
good thinking! Thanks! I'm going to go check it out right now! Thank you!