i thought it was great
really.. i thought it was about making a conscious decision to take a direction with ones life. Things always do look better "on the other side of the fence", but the characters chose to keep a precious friendship, rather than crossing that line. I have abslutely been that girl.. maybe that is why I liked it (not since I have been married or anything, but I have had a very special relationship with a much older man-- we were at the same place in life at the same time, much as they are... and also chose to keep the friendship. He is still someone very dear to me.
anyway, i havent eaten in abt 12 hrs, so I am probably babbling-- I will come and edit later probably, lol -- off to eat now
heahter