those nurses should be slapped by a bf boobie!! grrrrrrr
call your local lllleader, also see that lc the nurse 'warned' you about-shame on her for saying that she'd just blame the bottles-duh-of course they are part of the problem! get a hold of an sns and feed your babies at your breast with your pumped milk and you'll get nipple stimulation at the same time, all the while they'll be sucking and learning to nurse. it's something both the lc and the lllleader will be able to get for you. hang tough mama, you can do it.