Well, it does not sound selfish to me. It is about your FAMILY and what is best for everyone (inlaws not included). I am planning to wean Santino by the time he is 2, we are already cutting way back. I think that mama being happy and rested makes for a happier family. What is with the little girls being so aggressive about nursing? Grace was like that, she embarrassed me in public, and in front of family, I felt like the situation was out of my control. I had to be very firm for a few days, have food ready before she was hungry, and lots of distractions, and there were some tears, but she lived.
