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Originally Posted by Natalia
One thing I have been working on for myself and my family is the healing of mother-daughter wounds. I've posted about this before, but I find that I react differently to my daughter than to my sons. (Of course each child is different, but this is something more.) I have also been feeling strongly to connect to the Divine Feminine in some way.
So, what I have been thinking about is this. Can I tap for myself, my daughter and her daughter, my mother and her mother -- while keeping an intention for healing of mother-daughter relationships for all women. (Christiann Northrup's Mother Daughter Wisdom talks about all sorts of aspects of this.) I guess I know that I can tap and have any intention I want, but am wondering if there is anything to this in EFT "teachings."
There are plenty of other big issues, this is just one that is on my mind.
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I say 'yes' definitely.
I believe you can tap with multiple people in mind, most especially family members...I know that Deborah has good info on generational stuff/family relationships in her Family Constellations teachings.
You can incorporate anything from your other teachings into your EFT tapping routine IMO. People do it all the time with GREAT success. Gary Craig has always encouraged people to stretch the boundaries. That is what he did and came up with EFT.
Take notice of what comes up for you while you tap on this issue. Names, faces, places, incidents...things that will make your tapping more specific...
and to heal your own mother daughter issues, I would again, begin with your own issues...in relationship to your daughters. each one indvidually. Especially anythng to do with birth stories, pregnancies, birth order...and then of course stuff that happened between you all once they arrived
I will say, that I find for most everyone, the most important place to start is with your own parents(and/or caregivers...)..and your incidents with them that bother you. That is what will begin to shift your energy and then bring positive energy to every relationship in your life, because your response to life will change. What is it in your relationsips with your girls that reminds you of someone, in your past? Do you remember similar feelings in relationship to your mother? Grandmother? Sister? etc...
We certainly can tap for you Natalia! It would be so cool for all of us to tap on our mother daughter relationships. I hope Deborah posts and gives us suggestions in the Family Constellations language. it is really cool stuff.