This thread came at a perfect time.
I just recently had my second son, and I am not going to vaccinate (well, that is what I am thinking now). I gave my first son all his vaccinations b/c I didn't really know there was another way, and just listened to what the ped. and my mom had to say (I was 17 when I had him). I am learning so much now that I am making my own decisions about raising my children (and so differently than my mother!). My mom's comment to me when I told her I was not vaxing was "You are very foolish not to!" when I thought it was way more foolish to blindly vaccinate than to make an educated decision not to. Anyways, I constantly struggle with my decisions about how I raise my kids but am comforted to know they are my own. It helps to know someone else is struggling with this decision, but I know that we all know in our hearts what is right for our kids, so TRUST in your decisions!