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Yes, this is part and parcel for what you are doing!! Not that anyone looks forward to it or wants it but it is change. Now, as Jo said, find your rhythm and let them know what to expect (even loosely at first) every day.
Example: Get up and dressed (tidy rooms if you have them do that)
Eat breakfast
do whatever comes next
etc, etc.... if they are bickering, then gently remind them that this is what is to be done at this time and what is coming next.... also let them know that if they are bored enough to argue, they may need some work to do. Not as punishment but it usually is a motivator to either work together if they are assigned something or to find something else to do. That said, mine are expected to do the dishes after meals and to sweep and clean the table. they MUST get it done quickly and well so I can come and do my jobs that must be done in those areas.
You do not have to entertain them 24/7. Just saying that cause I always felt like I had to be coming up with something (in the beginning) to keep them occupied. Rhythm helps piles and of course, going outside whenever possible!!!
((HUGS)) you are doing great and on your way to a successful homelearning adventure. It just takes time to work out the kinks. You could also talk to your children by letting them know that it is not acceptable to do this or that or speak loudly to each other.....
rambling but just some of my BTDT.
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Tracey
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