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Originally Posted by cathleenc
I might consider therapy and work or therapy before trying work. Money is a control issue - not a supply issue. My exH used money over me all the time and it wore me so thin.... and he had millions, literally. And when I did finally snag a dream job he sat and cried and clung, saying he was losing me, and f'd with me so bad that I got fired in three days for crying on the job. So - my advice, based on personal experience, is that even a dream job can fail to be the ticket. Figure out what is snagging the relationship before striking out.
hugs,
Cathy
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I wholeheartedly agree with Cathy.
I work, I am a main bread-winner in the family and yes I work for financial reasons (if not for my salary we would go from lower-middle class to being dirt poor) and I would not if it was not for money, BUT you situation is completely different and your situation is not about money, no matter what your husband tells you.
Again, agreeing with Cathy.