Aw, I'm so sorry Kerri! OK, time to finally implement some therapy here! It's not getting better with time, and you and Dave and Naomi and the whole family really needs to get some help. I think you need to beg, borrow or steal the money to go to a good family psychologist who can work with all of you. Out of town, probably. And not cheap - but entirely necessary. She's not a lost cause, she's just got special needs.
