this sounds like a lovely swap!!!
1)I only drink herbal teas, green teas, like yogi or loose, I love chai(any), detox, cleansing, moontime, echinachea, peppermint, etc
2) I am waching my choc and sugar intake, but do love them, favs are ch. chip cookies, like herbal, biscotti, almonds, any nuts, coconut, don't like chewy fruit in my foods unless it's granola, lol
3) used are fine. for mags: like these or similar: cooking light, utne, living, kids, weight watchers, organic style, sewing, paper crafts, pagan, sage woman, homesteading
for books: reallife, historical, nature, philosophy, also like homemade thank you cards
4) small gifts....prefer beeswax or soy candles, nothing flowery, like fruity or mixed scents, votive, tealights, small notebook(for purse) or scrap-pad for desk, please no bath & body( I make this). large shells, pretty rocks, goddess or scorpio magnets, travel mug (for hot tea!).
prefer homemade/wahm/gentley used