I know that has to be hard for you, that your SIL won't consider giving babe to you guys. I see where she must feel like she has to have babe far away from her in order to allow babe to have a life with his/her parents, though. I am lucky that if Allie would have had her baby, and could have given it up..she would have considered me first.
I agree with Rebecca...doesn't matter what anyone says, if Adoptive Parents will allow you to be in babe's life in some capacity, try for it. If they won't you can't do much about it, I suppose. I hope they will. Heck, I hope somehow you can talk SIL into giving you that baby for that matter.
I don't know..I'm the last person who can give coherent advice these days..
Love you, though.
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Meg
Mama to Alexis, 22; Jacob, 19; and Elijah 11/20/02 and Sophia Jane, 11/20/04
Elijah allows me to dress him nicely and take a picture!
