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Old 07-29-2002, 11:50 AM   #3 (permalink)
ThirtySomething
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Yep! I hear ya. I'm there too. My ds isn't even two yet though. Aaarrgg...

I finally reach the point where I tell him:

"I'm here for you. When you need me or a hug, come get it."

I say it with love, but I can only do so much kwim? I agree that our kids just need to release this emotion. I also try to remember that as a child, the only valid emotion in our family was happiness. That is not the way I want to raise my boys. I think we can all agree that we, as humans, feel a lot more than that.

We also use the "Show me." phrase a lot and it can help. We are currently in the phase where we have meltdowns when a container of yogurt is opened the wrong (?!?) way. That is the kind of stuff I'm up against right now.
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