We want to call him Alex, but we still refer to him as Isaiah during this process. Im not sure how to make the conversion ??? His birth mom calls him a Isaiah and the courts will refer to him that way so we have been, but dh and I feel like using Alex (his middle name is alexander) sort of fits with our other childrens names and with our last name better. Our last name is Joyce. so, don't be confused if I say Isaiah once then I say Alex the next time lol. Im kind of scared, Im sure the people caring for him are calling him Isaiah, will it cause problems (for him)if we start calling him Alex when he comes here? I don't hate the name Isaiah, I just might not have chosen it myself. The only reason we are keeping his original name at all is because well...as dh put it he will be losing every other part of his identity, he deserves his name and that will be the one thing he will always have that his birth mother gave to him (other than life obviously)
Sorry for the confusion on that. I really don't have a clue what I'm doing anymore
