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Here is an important nugget of info.
anger is really just incredible fear.
It is the fear that you can't control a situation, that you can't figure things out.
If you could help him, during less stressful times understand that and find new ways to handle his emotions.....it might be helpful.
I would talk to him when he is in a good mood. I would say "Hey, lets go take a walk together and talk."
I would tell him that you want him to find a way to handle this now, so his teen years will be less stressful for him.
Hopefully you two can have a good conversation.
Going through the teens is so difficult due to the changes and fluctuations in the body and brain. It is a good time to set patterns for adult life too!
BTW....I have a 15 yr old ds and he is perfectly capable of discussing his emotions with us.
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