I was just thinking...something that is working really well right now is giving dd #1little jobs that are hers...keeps her busy out of trouble and makes her feel really important.
eg
-she gets the mail from the box
-i fill a pitcher for her to water the salad and herbs outside
-i show her which buttons to push and let her push them for things like VCR, DVD...phone...
-she answers the cordless phone when it rings
-she puts the silverware away from the dishwasher...
I have her sort diapers and wipes from the laundry basket-she loves that.
ummm-as she's gotton older a lot of these things she can do by herself, some need direction..etc...whatever works for your dd. now she'll even help me get diaper covers for the diaper change...
all is not bliss here-but it is better. Leah is just like me she would rather be an only child...
however, she hugs and kisses Aidra now and says "I love you Aidra" whe she is going to bed. Better than the looks of death she used to give her
and having regular play dates and outside exercise for her wil help...if there is a little friend who likes to visit-and that works for you-2 2 year olds are often easier than just your one.
Linda