We have a private subforum here that requires membership. It's for discussions of a more personal nature that you don't want to be public. (We post most of our stuff out here so don't think you are missing anything if you don't belong.) If you want to be added to the private subforum, go to your group memberships page under control panel and request membership. All the best, Deborah P.S. If I don't approve your membership in a day or so, please email or p.m. me. I haven't figured out how to be notified of pending requests and I don't always check daily.