Discussion in 'EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique' started by Linda, Feb 11, 2009.
I want to but already have plans thurs night.
That time frame works for me
sounds good! can I invite any outside amity people and is there a charge?
yes you can invite outside Amity
No charge for this one
posted call info in the original post.
I need to do some things at home and won't be there.
I'll be there
I'm planning on being there.
Changing my mind at the last minute. I need something and maybe this is it. Though I'm pretty sure my inner child was hushed so long ago I don't know if I can find her.
yay. and I'll give you a heads up..I want to work with a demo.
I want all of you to think of an age when you were young...that seems like it needs some healing. or an event. Not something too traumatic...that is very upsetting...but something you think. yeah I wish that had not happened, i really wish that was different...
Thank you Linda :heart:
That was a very interesting process. Thank you so much for letting me be a demo. It was so healing for me. I am basking in the afterglow.
Great session Linda
Sorry I had to drop off early. I promised T some couple time at 9 p.m.
I didn't see this post until now. Sorry I missed it!
Thank you Linda! :big hug:
I tapped along thinking of something from when I was little and afterward I had no emotion about it. That is so nice to be able to think of the incident and not feel sad.
The inner child from yesterday's call showed up as I was showering. She did not want to not perform afterall. She did not want her music. She want the outcome to be that she plays, remembers all of the music and plays it well -- as she has done so many times at home.
Linda is gone for the weekend, so if anyone has any thoughts how I could facilitate that outcome, PLEASE comment. I don't know how I can facilitate remembering.
I think she was just terrified in that moment and froze. Maybe I show up before the recital and tap on her fear and nervousness. Any other thoughts?
I like your idea Natalia. Also, you could ask her what she needs or wants in order to remember the music and play it well.
My understanding of Inner Child work is that you can take that child back to where ever she wants to be. You can go back to her and tell her that you understand that she has changed her mind and was acting out of fear and or confusion and ask her what she wants to do again to amend it. The beauty of inner child work is that there are infinite number of possibilities in regards to "fixing" ones issues. Ask her what she wants and then just go with the flow to help her achieve the outcome she needs.
I think 3Gs4Me has got it. There are two questions that Linda gave me to ask my little girl that also helped us find healing. I asked "her" where she felt the emotion in her boday and then I asked her what color it was.
Linda did that last night. Those questions helped my little girl tap into the right brain and that helped keep the answer coming from her rather than me.
How precious Natalia, that she came back and had the courage and comfort to tell you what she really wanted.
When Linda first asked me to ask my little girl how she wanted the memory resolved I experienced very strong resistance but I simply persisted until I could see it, visualize it the way my little girl said she wanted it to come out.
I am finding that this visualizing things as the little girl wants them is allowing the greatest shifts in my present life. It does not feel right at first but the final results are clear. I also find that in getting to the desired result, some of the obstacles are making themselves known.
Good luck to you and your inner child as you tap and visualize through this.