things that did not happen? I think this is one of my issues with the PPP. I don't have many big or even small traumatic events. Rather, there is an accumulation of little things done or not done and I cannot remember specific incidents in most cases. For example, my mother was fabulous in every way, took us places, guided us, taught us stuff. But, we were not close as far as communicating. I find that now it is hard to talk about Big Things because we do not have a history of talking. We spend time together, vacationed, passed many glorious days together, but I don't know her stories and she doesn't know mine. Do I tap a How I Wish It Had Happened big talk?