Well, three days ago, I decided to make tapping an integral part of my relationship with Leah. So, every night while dh puts Aidra to sleep, I lie with Leah on the couch and I ask her to tell me about her day. That way we can tap on stuff that upset her during her day. Also, she has a couple of ongoing issues that we can tap on if nothing bothered her that day. SHe has been loving it. I she tells me an upsetting story, I tap for her. Then I have her tell it as a black and white movie...using the third person. Then I have her tell it backwards(with my hel of course) and then we tell it forward and backwards with her favorite cartoon characters standing in as the main characters. We both laugh soooo mcuh. It is soo fun.The we have been working on stuff like her thumb sucking and her ruptured ear drum. The first night I did it, I had been in a foul mood for two days. I did some 'mechanical' tapping when things got bad, but did not really tap on my own issues. After I did a 30 minute tapping session with Leah that night my mood COMPLETELY shifted. I became mellow and calm since then. It is just surreal. Dh noticed as well. I have been *extremely* patient with both kids since I started tappping with Leah. I have not done any tapping on my issues on purpose. Tonite I will tap for me...but I just wanted to see what might happen without tapping on me for a while. AMAZING. I LOVE EFT., IT is so empowring...effective and incredible.