Ds 1 and 2 fight when it is clean up time. "He's not helping" "Yes, I am" "Stop playing and HELP!!!" "You can't tell me what to do." Throw in a some growling, crying, a sly slap or kick and just play it over and over in a loop tape and you have what I am hearing now. What do you do to get it done and not go in there and do it yourself. or go in over and over and keep pointing out the stuff they missed? Ds 1 is 9 and ds 2 is 4 so there is an age difference and Ds 1 probably does a lot of the work. I guess I need to know how to motivate #2. Bribing or taking away the toys they don't put away doesn't help and sometimes punishes #1. Ds 1 has is issues and is bossy which is why #2 doesn't respond well to him. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. Losing my mind.